A Family Constellation

This is a three-dimensional  process that has the power to shift generations of suffering and unhappiness. Bert Hellinger, the founder of this work, who studied and treated families for more than 50 years, observed that many of us unconsciously “take on” destructive familial patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, aloneness, alcoholism and even illness as a way of “belonging” in our families. Bonded by a deep love, a child will often sacrifice his own best interests in a vain attempt to ease the suffering of a parent or other family member.

Family Constellations allow us to break these patterns so that we can live healthier, happier, more fulfilled lives. In a moment of insight, a new life course can be set in motion. The results can be life-changing.   Family Constellations asks you to acknowledge what is. To see things as they are, and to know that you are the only one who can change, and through this bring change to all those around you. Finding honour and respect for those that came before you, you allow them to look friendly on you as you walk your own way in life. These are your ancestors, and they give you life. It is up to you, to take this life forward in honour of them. This is your task, and setting up a constellation of your family of origin could be your first step to untangle that which stands in your way…

Family Constellations with Alida Haarhof

I offer individual family constellations from my healing room in Capri, regardless of how it sounds you do not have to bring the whole family to do a constellation you only need to bring yourself.

A session takes anything from about 90 minutes to 120 minutes

When the family has been brought into its natural order, the individual can leave it behind him while still feeling the strength of his family supporting him. Only when the connection to his family is acknowledged, and the person’s responsibility seen clearly and then distributed, can the individual feel unburdened and go about his personal affairs without anything from the past weighing him down or holding him back.” Bert Hellinger


1st timer. .Family Con!
A complete game changer! I wish I'd done it years ago... It is very hard to describe in words but if you need to sort something out on a ``Soul Level`` then this is it....and even if you don't the ``experience`` of even just ``participating`` in a role with the group is mind blowing...to say the least..
This is for people who need to shift any family dynamic (that has become intolerable, is causing pain or from being stuck in a situation) quickly and without having to talk about it for years. I have achieved the most amazing shifts after one session of Family Constellation than any other work I have done in the last 20 years. It brings clarity and understanding, forgiveness and peace. It not only works for the person doing the session but also for the other family members involved in the situation. The manner in which the workshop is carried out is non- judgemental and non-threatening while being held with love and trust. Highly recommended! - Michelle Downey
I must admit I was a little nervous going to Alida for the first time as I really didn't know what to expect. This all quickly washed away as soon as I met her and entered her warm and welcoming space. The experience you have when you go to Alida is one of healing the soul. With her incredible psychic abilities (and this is unquestionable), her knowledge of numerology, psychology and Tarot you are taken on journey of discovering yourself. It is a process that gives you the tools to overcome the obstacles life throws at you. Recently I have been attending the Family constellation workshops which have literally shifted my whole being from a place that was stagnant and full of heartache to a place with hope and love. The future to me seems so much brighter. All I can say is that it has been a life changing experience! Thank you Alida xxxx Samantha Levy